{"id":7201,"date":"2021-05-11T10:25:05","date_gmt":"2021-05-11T08:25:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.forachange.nl\/en\/?p=7201"},"modified":"2021-10-10T09:51:53","modified_gmt":"2021-10-10T07:51:53","slug":"when-can-you-help","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.forachange.nl\/en\/2021\/05\/when-can-you-help\/","title":{"rendered":"When can you help?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Nothing feels better than helping.<\/p>\n

But sometimes it is better not to help. After all, your help could also make things worse. Then you help out, only to sigh afterwards:<\/p>\n

“I just wanted to help.”<\/p>\n

If you – like me – are someone who likes to help, it is important to estimate as accurately as possible whether your help has a chance of success. So I made a handy tool. It is a decision tree with six questions. When you feel the need to help, you can infer whether you can help. And you immediately see what kind of help you can offer.<\/p>\n

I am happy to help you with it.<\/p>\n

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So?<\/b><\/p>\n

You can help quite often, as long as you face the role in which you are going to help. Only if the other person (really) does not feel a problem, there is nothing you can do to help.<\/p>\n

Annemarie Mars, December 2020<\/p>\n

Photocredits:<\/a>\u201cColorful Parrots Couple\u201d<\/a>\u00a0by\u00a0<\/span>^riza^<\/a>\u00a0is licensed under\u00a0CC BY 2.0<\/a><\/h6>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Nothing feels better than helping.<\/p>\n

But sometimes it is better not to help. After all, your help could also make things worse. Then you help out, only to sigh afterwards:<\/p>\n

“I just wanted to help.”<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":7202,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7201","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-nieuws"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.forachange.nl\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7201","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.forachange.nl\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.forachange.nl\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.forachange.nl\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.forachange.nl\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7201"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/www.forachange.nl\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7201\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7269,"href":"https:\/\/www.forachange.nl\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7201\/revisions\/7269"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.forachange.nl\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/7202"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.forachange.nl\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7201"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.forachange.nl\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7201"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.forachange.nl\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7201"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}